It is a common view in Chinese Tradition to do a Tea Pai Ceremony. Where family members gathered on that special day. A chance for the marry couple to pay their tribute by presenting tea in a special cup to the eldest family member. Person can be Great Grand Mother, Grand Mother, Parents, Uncles and Aunties
The customary phrase spoken to the parents during this ritual can be translated as “Thank you for bringing us up. Now we are getting married. We owe it all to you.” The parents will usually drink a small portion of the tea .In return – the marry couple receive either Red Envelope (Fung Bao – Bao read as Pao), and or sometimes Jewelry.